READ: Proverbs 10:31, 12:18, 16:24, 25:11-12
Just as words can
be used to destroy, they can be used to lift others up! Oh what a joy this is
as a ministry! This is intentional, not something we simply hope will happen
once in a while. Our motivation to be consistent with this is twofold. First,
there’s the unconditional love of God serving as a fuel! He rejoices over us
with singing and so why wouldn’t we bless others with specific words that
uplift?
Second, as God’s
love motivates us, so too does our knowledge of what this can do for others. “A
word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver” (25:11),
Proverbs declares. Apples of gold in a setting of silver? That would’ve cost a
fortune back then AND today. Proverbs is saying that a fitly spoken word is
priceless. This is motivating!
At times our
words need to be directed to a hurting soul. As people take the brunt of the
difficulties of life, we can provide words that make a massive difference. We
must be specific, as lead by the Spirit.
Sometimes simple words such as, “I’m praying for you” mean much, but at other
times, we need to ask God for something that’s way more detailed. Let’s
remember that, “. . . the tongue of the wise brings healing . . .” (12:18). Even where people are hurting because of their
own sin or temptations, we must be gracious. We too can identify with their
weaknesses, if we’re humble.
Finally, lifting
up others can include passing on wisdom, or as Proverbs affirms, “the mouth of
the righteous brings forth wisdom . . .” (10:31). Of course, our wisdom should be
well-timed, and given at a point where it will be received. Nor should we ever
assume that we’re meant to pass on ALL our wisdom!
JOURNALING AND PRAYER
1.
Think
of those times when the words of others have built you up. Reflect on how they
made you feel. Praise God for these people, whether family, friends or strangers.
2.
Ask
God to show you specific people that you could lift up with your words in the
near future. Ask God to show you any specific words, thoughts, pictures or
verses that you can use.
